by Clementine Lloyd

When Your Loved Ones Don't Support Your Goals, and How to Not Let it "Get" to You...

A wise person once said: “be careful who you share your goals with”.  It is commonplace that when we have a new project or goal, we want to share it with our loved ones.  We see the beauty of our idea and we want to turn those dreams into a reality.  Those moments when the idea first comes to you feel like a dream and that you are going to be unstoppable in achieving it. Sure there will be struggles and hitches when the real work gets underway, but right now you are experiencing the beautiful honeymoon period, just you and your baby. Bliss!

But then suddenly things get tricky....

Our very nature as feeling, thinking individuals is that we all own different viewpoints.  So when you share a thought or idea with others, be it anyone from an acquaintance to your ride or die bestie, their own thoughts and feelings will creep in...and they aren't always supportive ones.

I experienced this recently with a person very close to me, and found myself stunned by their negative response to the dreams I had just shared. Now, we are all blessed with the tools to pick and choose what we take on board from our external world, but when you're faced with someone you love slamming you down, how do you deal with that? And while they may not even notice they are doing it, if we aren't careful, their own personal world-view or opinion can start to permeate our own minds...

So how do we make sure the opinions of others don't limit our beliefs?  

We all have an inner voice that we deal with every day - a voice that can boost your confidence as much as it can put you down (and more often the latter if you don’t keep it in check).  Do you know what yours sounds like? It is important to know your inner voice and to be aware if she's trying to trip you up (or being influenced by other peoples opinions).  A well meaning word from a friend can go a long way in making you falter, and then suddenly you're walking away from that beloved idea fearing it was not the great light-bulb moment you thought. Or worse, feel it would never amount to anything and that you aren’t good enough to achieve it.

Luckily for you, you can change this! You can arm yourself with awareness and get to know your own inner voice and how she reacts to others opinions.  You can learn to weed out these limiting beliefs as they creep in, and take steps to pick apart what is fact from opinion. An idea is just the start, and then the real work comes in - and you don't want to miss out on putting your goals into action because of another persons bad past experiences or limiting thoughts.  

We put together a list of our favorite crystals to help keep your inner voice in check, and turn those dreams into reality!

The Unstoppable Kit:  the prettiest collection of pyrite, quartz, tourmaline and aragonite to make you unstoppable in achieving your dreams.

Tiger’s Eye:  will help to unlock your creativity, also bringing mental harmony and, above all, strength!

Lapiz Lazuli:  promotes clarity, wisdom, and opens up your internal channels of communication.

All this can go a long way to giving you the inner peace and mental strength you so richly deserve in order to achieve your goals. Listen to yourself more, focus on your desires, and anything can be achieved.

Now go live your dreams...!  Aunt Milly doesn't know what she's talking about. ;) 

So you’ve finally decided which beautiful friends of yours will be standing next to you as you say your “I do’s”.  You’ve shared everything with these girls - they’ve helped you pick out your dress, held your hair back one too many times, and are always there for you when your boss is driving you nuts.  These girls are special.  Too special to just give them matching robes with their initial embroidered.  These girls deserve something...well...special.

Personalized crystals for your girls are something that will not only look gorgeous, but will stoke their personal fire.  A symbol of your wish for their health and wellbeing.  Picking a personal crystal for your bridesmaids will not only show how well you know them, but emphasize your respect for who they are as individuals.  

Whether she’s living in a world of wanderlust, is totally boy crazy, or a major girl boss, we took the guesswork out of picking the perfect crystals for your girls as a thank for supporting you on your big day, and beyond!

For the GirlBoss

Look no further than the Sunstone for your badass, #girlboss bestie.  This stone is for personal power, independence, and leadership.  Whether she’s saving lives, or starting a new business - this stone will support her in all her endeavors.  

For the Boy Crazy

Rose Quartz is the one!  This pretty pink stone attracts romance into your life while promoting self love at the same time.  What’s not to love.

For the Dog Obsessed

Clear Quartz is the crystal for pets; it boosts immune system, speeds up healing and enhances vitality.  Amethyst is perfect for pups with separation anxiety, as it eases fears and lowers stress!

For the Traveler

Amethyst is known as the traveller's stone. Carry this violet beauty with you on the road for protection whilst exploring the world!  

For the Creative

The protective Tiger’s Eye activates our third eye - and helps us really see what our true skills and talents are.  Having a creative block?  Tiger’s eye helps release the block and enhances our personal power.  

For the Spiritual Junkie

Tap into all of the seven Chakras with the Chakra Starter Kit - perfect for beginners or those looking to expand their collections and get down with the healing touch.  With one stone for each chakra - you can ensure your entire being will be aligned.  WHAT'S INCLUDED:  Amethyst, Lapiz Lazuli, Sodalite, Green Serpentine, Tiger Eye, Orange Cornelian, Red Jasper - all together in a Crystal Boutique Bag with instructions and details on each stone.

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This post is not intended for use as medical advice.

The two healing crystals you need to relieve your anxiety, destress and live a calmer and clearer life.